Have a need to query on how to quit with style? This article highlights how to avoid the common mistakes people make when resigning from their jobs. What to do before you resign, how to write a letter of resignation, when to ask for references and how to avoid employer manipulation through guilt.
Things to Consider When Writing A Letter of Resignation
Plan Your Resignation
If you think about sticking a pen in your eye after every
encounter with the boss chances are you’re considering a career change.
Use that pen in a constructive manner and research the
company’s resignation policy. Each company’s policy will be different.
It is up to you to know the finer points of how to resign from your job.
Will your employment end the day you hand in your letter
or will you be expected to work for a certain length of time while a
replacement is interviewed, trained and transitions into your job?
The most important rule of resignation is to have another
job, in writing, to go to before you resign. Many people make the error of
resigning in haste and then have to live with the humiliation of asking for
their job back because their rent is due. Do not make this error.
What to Put In Your Letter of Resignation
Many people agonize about what to put in their letters of
resignation. Sometimes less is more. Why you are resigning is not the
issue. The issue is that you are resigning and that’s all you need to
write. Don’t put anything in writing that may come back to haunt
you. It is important to remember that your resignation letter is the last
thing that will be entered in your personnel file. Consequently, it
will be the first thing that’s viewed when future potential employers
call for references. A simple letter of resignation cannot be misconstrued.
However a letter that is critical of employees/employers can result in a
negative recommendation.
Writing Your Letter
In its most basic form a letter of resignation should
include:
The
date you are writing the letter of resignation.
The date of when you plan to resign your position.
Your
signature at the bottom of the page.
Delivery to the Human Resource Office or
your boss.
Before You Hand In Your Letter
Research of the company’s resignation policy will put you
wise to the fact that you may be immediately escorted off the premises. If this
is the case some office housekeeping is needed before your deliver your letter.
Complete the following tasks before you resign:
Take
any personal items home prior to resigning. It is wise to do this a
little at a time. Leave the pictures of your kids until the last day.
Make sure you separate what belongs to the company
from what is what you bought with your own money. Possession is not
really nine-tenths of the law. In fact, some companies will charge
employees with theft. Leave the pen for the next guy.
Delete any personal e-mails or sensitive computer
information from your desktop. Sensitive computer information can be
classed as: the family budget, the book report you typed at the last moment for
your child and various other things you may not want anyone else to read.
You are required to leave anything that belongs to the company with the
company. This can run from computer software that you developed to the
prototype for the next multi-million dollar widget you thought of one day on
the way to work.
Make
sure all your projects are completed. If they can’t be completed leave well-organized
directions for the next person who will take over from you.
Deliver Your Letter of Resignation
This is always good to do at the end of the day. That
way if they tell you not to come back you get to sleep in the next day.
However, if they want you to sign exit papers, complete an exit interview or
offer you a counter offer to the one you already have you can tell them you see
them in the morning to discuss it, make an appointment and do the following.
Signing Papers with Any Type Of Legal Action Pending
Do not sign any papers until you speak to an
attorney. If you are charging a company with discrimination/unfair practice get
legal advice before you sign anything. You will be able to contact your
attorney tell him what transpired and ask him/her to accompany you to the
meeting.
The Exit Interview
If you have worked for a company and they wait until you
resign to ask your opinion about working conditions you have to ask yourself will
anything you say result in change? You should come up with no as an answer.
Keeping that in mind remind yourself that they are getting
paid big money to know what’s going on in the company. It is not up to you
to point out your secretary’s slow typing speed or your co-worker’s
laziness. They already know this and they don’t care or they would have
fixed it. Be non-committal in your answers and keep them short.
This is a good time to ask for letters of recommendations
and references. If you want you can also offer to stay until a
replacement is found. However, make sure they know you have a timeline
until you start your next job.
Avoiding Employer Manipulation Through Guilt and
Counteroffers
Employers know that it costs money to train new people.
Haven’t you been working like ten men but getting paid the salary of one? Now
the boss realizes that this may potentially clog up the works. He may even
think that twenty-five cent raise you asked for last Christmas might be
something he can examine. He might even give you a counter offer.
Do not take a counter offer ever! Research shows that 75% of people who
take counter offers are usually not working in the same job six months later.
The reasons: they have been laid-off, downsized or fired.
Apparently, the boss believes that those once willing to
resign are not loyal company people. Those employees who
accept counteroffers are usually replaced when work is slow and the company has
time to hire and train someone who will work for less to do the same job.
Remember the company ran without you before and it will
continue to run after you leave. Do not
let your boss make you feel guilty. That’s what your mother is for.
Office Etiquette
Once you have resigned say
good-bye to your co-workers. This squashes
speculation that you were asked to leave. Make sure you tell them
that you had a positive experience working with them. You never know if that slow-typing secretary will
go back to school and someday be your boss. Stranger things have happened.